My mage build.
After the super-butch look forced by the equipment at the start of the game:
I then eventually had to go to the trouble of hacking my save file to create equipment for her later, because this character does not want the slinky dress-robes that make up 90% of the mage equipment! (Not to mention it's crazy for roleplaying purposes to be running around in magerobes with a huge staff, considering the plot.)
So here I am in all my androgynous glory.
... yes, I do intend to do the f/f romances with this character but that's a coincidence honest!
Disappointed that being blond did not alter my starting family... that feature doesn't seem to be nearly as well-implemented as they'd suggested. Oh well.